[树洞] 老哥们求助，这种情况要不要表白

本人58，本科，京户，老家四川。
大学大二的时候向一个女生表白，是重庆的，大一的时候因为同在学生会一个部门，又算半个老乡，所以经常一起玩聊天什么的。
大二的时候被拒绝了，理由是太熟了，把我当兄弟那种....
后来她跟另外一个男生谈恋爱了我也就没折腾了，只是过生的时候祝福一下送点小礼物，偶尔人生有变动的时候交流一下。
然后现在5年过去了，她闺蜜通知我她和那个男生分手了。(额以前大二的时候为了追她，跟她闺蜜的关系都打点的不错...经常送点零食给她们宿舍之类的)
然后月初的时候我拿她过生为借口又和她聊上了。
她现在在北京，在当时本科的学校读了研，留校当行政。
我选择了工作，辗转北京深圳，现在在成都，毕业后算混的不错的。
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我想的是国庆过去告白的，心里觉得80%的可能都是被拒绝，毕竟5年前别人就没看上我。
就挺忐忑的。
老哥们能不能分析一下，国庆努力告白呢，还是等。
哦国庆出差是借口，就是单纯的过去找她，约了顿饭。
然后手里购置了一套TF的口红礼盒，也不知道过去吃饭的时候该不该送。
[s:ac:愁]如果成了的话也不用担心异地恋，手里有几个北京的offer，我会去北京工作，在那边也有房。